To my son or daughter,

I would tell you to choose your goals wisely based on the passion in your heart.  I would tell you never underestimate yourself or your abilities., be fair and honest in your dealing and always do your best.  I would tell you before you get involved with someone make sure that person supports your dreams and will strive to help you achieve them.  I would tell you to search for joy every moment you can, and always, PUT GOD FIRST!!!!!